Hard JOB, Daily JOB, Monday JOB,
Tuesday JOB, Wednesday JOB, Thursday JOB, Friday JOB,... Have you ever
had a job that you absolutely despised? ...
They say being unemployed is a job, and I couldn’t agree.
You have to tailor your résumé to each job, craft clever cover letters (but make sure it doesn’t look like you’re trying too hard), attend
They say being unemployed is a job, and I couldn’t agree.
You have to tailor your résumé to each job, craft clever cover letters (but make sure it doesn’t look like you’re trying too hard), attend
networking
events, connect with industry professionals and colleagues from your
alma mater, keep yourself busy with volunteering or a job, stay on top
of industry trends and prep for interviews.
The list goes on.
Unemployment is absolutely miserable.
I was unemployed for four months following my graduation from UW-Whitewater in December.
I
do have a full-time, paid internship now, but these points are still as
relevant as they were three months ago, as I’m starting the job search
once again.
This is what I learned (and am still learning) from 2015: My Year of Job Searching.
1. Getting a job took longer than I thought it would.
I
made deadlines in my mind: 1) Get a job by January; 2) start a job in
February; 3) find an apartment and move in by April; 4) save money.
It’s June, and I’m way behind on my schedule. I still don’t have a real job, an apartment or any savings.
It’s funny how life works, huh?
2. A degree does not guarantee a job.
I
feel like many college students are brought up believing that a college
education guarantees a job after graduation. We’re taught if we attend
class and get good grades, we can easily land a job after graduation.
But, that’s not good enough.
We have to not only be
involved in extracurriculars, Greek life and organizations, but also
take on leadership positions. That’s not good enough.
We
have to get internships, part-time jobs and do freelance work; then, we
have to get recommendations on LinkedIn. That’s not good enough.
We have to network, stay on top of our fields and connect with professionals. And, that’s still not good enough.
3. I had no idea moving back home after graduation would be so difficult.
It’s sad how I’ve lived in my parents’ house for almost 20 years, and now it doesn’t feel like home.
My
dad repainted my bedroom walls to stark white and hasn’t put any photos
or decorations up, so it feels like I’m living in a hospital room.
I
think it’s just as hard on my parents as it is on me. I haven’t lived
at home for four years, so I felt like I was invading a space that was
once my own.
4. My (f)unemployment was both glorious and awful.
I stayed with my boyfriend in downtown Milwaukee most weeks and weekends.
While he was at work, I applied for jobs, watched terrible daytime TV, cooked, baked, cleaned, napped and felt like a housewife.
But,
I also had a lot of “me time” during those four months, which was
fantastic (something an introvert can never get enough of).
I started exercising; I watched a lot of documentaries; I read books. I was also extremely unhappy.
A
lot of my unhappiness was attributed to how awful I felt about myself
and my life; I felt like I had lost myself. Those were some dark times. I
was depressed, unmotivated and down on myself most of the time.
I
knew I had to stay busy, whether it be through writing in my journal,
photography, spending time with friends or watching movies to stay on
track.
5. Networking with strangers is exhausting for introverts.
Introverts hate small talk. And what powers networking? Small talk.
Of course, I forced myself to go to a couple networking events. I did what I was comfortable with.
Baby steps are key when you’re entering an uncomfortable situation because you know it will help you out in the long run.
6. It’s hard not to feel worthless.
I
get it: You’ve worked so hard the last few years in college — in your
internships, jobs and classes — and, now, you have nothing to show for
it.
Bills are piling up, dreams you had about post-grad life seem far out of reach, and personal deadlines pass.
It’s
hard not to compare yourself to other graduates or young professionals.
I stalked my dream companies like crazy. I checked company websites and
online job boards like it was my religion. I applied to jobs at least
once a week.
I checked in with my peers I graduated from college with to see if they got jobs. I always had LinkedIn open on my computer.
I was doing everything right, and it was very frustrating not seeing any results.
7. Apply for jobs you want but might not be qualified for.
This
piece of advice I got from my boyfriend. What’s the worst thing that
could happen if you apply for a job you are 90 percent sure you won’t
get?
They’re not going to reply to your email or ask you in for an interview? Big whoop.
I
had a great experience when I applied for a job I knew I wasn’t
qualified for. I met with the CEO of the smaller agency, and we talked
for almost an hour.
I went in knowing I wasn’t going to
get hired for the position, but I was flattered the CEO wanted to get
to know me in case any future positions opened up.
I
had an open mind throughout the interview, and in the end, I learned a
lot about the company and its needs, which was more than I ever could
through its website and social channels.
8. Remember what your parents told you about putting your personal information on the Internet.
By
this, I mean your phone number and address. When you upload your résumé
to job boards with your phone number, you will get phone calls from
strangers.
I learned this the hard way. I should have
written, “I prefer to be contacted via email” because I cannot tell you
how many random calls from recruiters about sales positions I’ve
received in the past five months.
9. Get organized.
I kept an Excel grid of all the jobs I applied for, if I had heard back, contact information and any other relevant information.
This
helped me out so much when I would apply to multiple jobs at the same
company, or if I had forgotten if I applied to a certain job.
10. Don’t be afraid to follow up with contacts.
I
don’t know why, but I hate talking on the phone to strangers. If I
didn’t hear from a company soon after I sent in my application, my
boyfriend suggested I follow up with a call.
People can ignore emails, he said, but they can’t ignore a phone call. Good point.
Companies
get a ton of emails regarding job openings, especially if it’s a
coveted company or position. Calling the office and following up with
your application, interview or hiring process is a smart way to stay on
top of what’s going on.
Again, what’s the worst that could happen?
11. It’s hard to be creative when you’re unemployed.
I
couldn’t write. I couldn’t sleep. I didn’t blog for months. All of my
creative energy went into writing cover letters, updating my résumé for
each job position and soaking up information in career-related articles.
Instead
of blogging and tweeting about journalism and public relations-related
articles, I leaned on my past experiences to shine in my résumé and
cover letter.
I leaned on Ideas That Evoke, who
graciously let me work part-time from home a couple of months after I
graduated from college. I leaned on my parents, friends and boyfriend.